Top Ten Male Turn-Offs

By Julia Grady

1. Indecisiveness 
Let me just tell you, he does not care what pair of shoes you wear tonight or what color lipstick you choose. Make up your damn mind because you're already 20 minutes late to the restaurant that you took two days to decide on. 

2. Dishonesty
Guys want you to just tell them how it is. They do not want to constantly be playing the guessing game and wondering if you're telling the truth this time.

3. Flakiness 
Flakiness and tardiness are very bad qualities to have. It gives off the impression that you do not care about the other person and have no intention of keeping them in your life long term.

4. Ultimatums 
Ultimatums are a recipe for resentment. If a person makes a decision under the pressure of an ultimatum, they will soon realize this and become less interested in the relationship. 

5. Jokes at His Expense 
No guy likes to be the butt of a joke. Constantly making jokes at his expense will make him feel belittled and powerless. 

6. Playing Hard to Get
Playing hard to get can sometimes give off the vibe that you are uninterested which may sometimes lead a guy to give up hope. Just be straight up with him. A little tease is okay here and there, but don't make him work too hard for it.

7. Trying to Change Him 
Don't be that girl that tries to change every little thing about him. If you truly loved him, then you would love him just the way he is. Although, a little constructive criticism never hurt.

8. Cell Phone Addictions 
When a girl is constantly checking her phone, that makes a guy think that she has better places to be and more interesting people to talk to. This is a very unattractive quality to have. You can make it through dinner without checking your phone. I promise you Snapchat and Instagram will still be there when you're done. 

9. Pretending to be Dumb 
I'm not sure who invented the idea that stupidity was attractive, but clearly they were actually dumb and not just pretending to be. 

10. Helplessness
A guy likes a girl who can put her mind to something and get it done like a boss. Do not be the girl who can't even cut her own steak on the first date. 

Leave a comment below telling us what your biggest turn-off is.